Defining Our Core

I'm defined by my family and my values. It's unlikely anyone will point to any specific thing that I did and say "Nicole did that." It's much more likely that they will talk about the kind of person you are or the people you surround yourself with. 

It's not that we don't want to do and accomplish amazing things, it just needs to be an and rather than an or. It shouldn't be at the expense of those things that make up our core.