Often times there isn't space for everything we want to do in a day. That's especially true when we need to compromise our time with others. Whether it is at work, home or in our broader circle, we spend a lot of time balancing our own priorities among someone else's.
It's hardest when there isn't a clear more or less important task. When both things you are trying to balance are equally weighted. That's the dance of community and relationships. Learning when to be the one leading the dance and when you need to follow.