Can conflict be a sign that we're moving forward? On an episode of CBC's Ideas sociologist Aladin El-Mafalaani brings forward the paradoxical idea that conflict increase in tandem with integration. That as newcomers or anyone categorized as other is integrated into our society that conflict will increase.
It makes sense when you think about it. Before integration there's no reason for there to be tension. It is temporary and not felt in your life. As something is integrated those who oppose or are resistant to it begin to feel threatened. They start to see that they may have to change and begin to fight against it.
I particularly love Mr. El-Mafalaani's analogy of the dinner table.
"I always describe the general integration process like this: first generation migrants usually sit on the floor, while the established citizens sit at the table. At this stage, the migrants are happy just to be there. But the second generation sits at the table and they also want a piece of the pie. This is how successful integration leads to a higher potential for conflict. More people sitting at the table means that more people would also like a nice place at the table and a piece of the pie. And the third generation, the grandchildren of migrants, don't just want a piece of the pie — they also want to have a say in what is ordered: which pie is coming to the table. And the potential for conflict continues to grow, because the next step is to decide which recipe is used. That's what open societies promise. And since a liberal immigration country has a new first generation every year, as well as a new second and third generation, the situation continues to grow in complexity. It will remain full of conflicts."
It's a great analogy for the experience of minorities or newcomers to a culture. It can also be applied to any new ideas. People dig in when they feel like you not only want to, but may be able to change the status quo recipe. Another case where tension and conflict can be seen as a good thing. They can indicate progress toward something and the uncomfortable pain of growth that comes with the journey.
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