Almost everything is happening outside of your control. It was that way before you got here and it will be that way after you’re gone.
I got this from a Medium email subscription via their Personal Growth stream and Living With Confidence.
A lot of rubs we experience happen when we try to control things that are outside of our control and/or we don't take the reins on the things that are in our purview.
Learning how to master both these skills is a lifelong journey. It's hard to see sometimes what's not our load to carry and that we might have to let go and surrender to its future direction. It can also be a big relief once we find this clarity and hopefully free us up to focus on that which is ours to influence.
Being a Force for Good 