Sometimes it's easy to quickly jump to the reason that someone else is being mean, cruel or selfish because they are a bad person. More often than not it's because there's an insecurity that stems from not belonging. That comes from being unsure of if they love themselves or if others truly accept them as they are.
That's why, as hard as it is at times, to think about how we might answer a situation with love hopefully helping to reframe how they perceive the world.
