Today is my first Mother’s Day. It’s a common saying that it takes a village to raise a child. I think the same can be said for the transition into motherhood. I’m so grateful for my village who has helped me find my footing and confidence as a mother.
I started to learn about being a Mom from my own. I learned the strength that a mother can have to support her children through anything. My mom was like a duck. Gliding on the water with her feet working so hard underneath. We only ever saw the grace above the water as she made sure we had a smooth life filled with love.
My Nanny was a huge part of my life growing up. We were lucky enough to grow up across the street from her. I learned the power that food can have to make everyone feel loved and to build a community. She also showed me the importance of making time to spend with the ones you love.
My sister has two little ones a few years older than my daughter. I turn to her constantly for advice knowing that she’ll already have done the research and tested it in real life. This has allowed me to tune out all of the different ‘shoulds’ you can find flying at you and have my own ‘Google’ for motherhood.
I have many friends who have inspired me as I’ve watched them with their little ones. I’ve been especially lucky to go through this journey step by step with my beautiful friend Caryn. Her daughter was born exactly one month before mine. She’s been a constant support, cheerleader and sounding board for the last 6 months. The thousands of messages and countless baby dates have been a highlight of this journey and I know will continue for many years to come.
I (literally) wouldn’t be the Mom I am without my husband. He’s the best at quieting the crazy voices in my head and giving me piles of positive reinforcement. I’m so lucky to hear some variation of “you know, you’re a really good Mom, Ellyn is so lucky” every other day. His faith has been a huge confidence builder.
Lastly, my sweet Ellyn. She’s taught me how to find joy in 3am wake ups, to laugh through poopslosions and to take time to be still everyday. She’s my biggest motivation to be the best Mom and person that I can be.
Happiest of days to the many other humans who’ve helped myself and so many other people step into our motherhood journey. The village is essential in all aspects of life and I’m so grateful for ours.
Being a Force for Good 